{"id":1987,"date":"2012-04-23T22:51:27","date_gmt":"2012-04-24T03:51:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.unfoldingseries.com\/?p=1987"},"modified":"2014-07-18T10:00:33","modified_gmt":"2014-07-18T15:00:33","slug":"its-not-so-hard-living-400-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/its-not-so-hard-living-400-years\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;It&#8217;s not so hard living 400 years&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">My friend Matt* swiveled his barstool as the stranger continued, &#8220;&#8230; you just have to keep finding new friends.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;And you know what weirded me out?&#8221; Matt asked me as he retold the event.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;No, what was it?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;I had been looking at myself in the bar mirror and was thinking how I know I&#8217;m going to live a long time and considering what it would be like to live a few hundred years.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;Then, as soon as he finished saying it, he walked away.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>All psychics can tell you stories like this. We hear several people\u00a0give us the same message in a short span of time. Or in extreme cases, can be in bed when a radio alarm clock plays a song or program, we fumble and hit the switch,\u00a0 but the radio drones on. The universe cares less about our understanding of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Causality\" target=\"_blank\">causality<\/a> than that we get the message.<\/p>\n<p>You may have difficulty believing this, but when it happens to you\u00a0\u2013 you pay attention. Or at least it would have benefited you to.<\/p>\n<p>Matt and I looked young for our ages. People back then couldn&#8217;t believe I had been married for over 20 years and, though I&#8217;ve stopped exercising, my doctor said I could pass for ten years younger.<\/p>\n<p>Every morning I used to wake up and utter the phrase, &#8220;Choose life, choose health, choose youth,&#8221; to set the tone for my day. For a while my schedule allowed me to exercise a good 15 &#8211; 20 hours a week. One hour of yoga starting at 5:30 am. On the days I didn&#8217;t lift weights, I&#8217;d do an hour of aerobic exercise; elliptical machine, stairs, swim, bicycle &#8211; whatever was available. On weight days I&#8217;d drop the aerobics down to two 20 minute sessions and do weights for about an hour and\u00a0 a half in between.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2010\" class='wp-caption alignright' style='width:113px;'><a href=\"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/reincarnation\/its-not-so-hard-living-400-years\/attachment\/li_chingyuen-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2010\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2010  \" title=\"Li Ching-Yuen\" alt=\"L\u01d0 Q\u012bngy\u00fan photographed in 1927 at the residence of General Yang Sen. Also Li Ching-Yuen or Li Ching-Yun \" src=\"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Li_chingYuen1-113x150.jpg\" width=\"113\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Li_chingYuen1-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Li_chingYuen1-227x300.jpg 227w, https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Li_chingYuen1-379x500.jpeg 379w, https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Li_chingYuen1.jpeg 434w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 113px) 100vw, 113px\" \/><\/a><p class='wp-caption-text'>L\u01d0 Q\u012bngy\u00fan photographed in 1927 at the residence of General Yang Sen is said to live from 1677 or 1683 to May 6, 1933.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I felt excellent and loved the workout as much for the benefit it gave me as for the experience itself.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps in the late 1960&#8217;s or early 70&#8217;s, I heard the story of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Li_Ching-Yuen\" target=\"_blank\">Li Ching-Yuen<\/a>, a man from China born in 1677 by some accounts who lived until 1933, buried 22 wives if I remember right \u2013 I see in a couple of internet searches the number is 23. In any event, the story of Li Ching-Yuen and other long lived people gave me confidence I had the potential to live several hundred years.<\/p>\n<p>In 2007 I went through a layoff; this was a little before the recession hit. That meant I had to focus on business and exercise had to be let go. A while after that my wife became seriously ill.<\/p>\n<p>It became more important to focus on her recovery than my life extension program. She and I are in this together. I&#8217;m willing to shave off a few years here and there to remain in sync with her. Besides, it would do neither of us any good for me to be a paragon of health in isolation while watching her deteriorate.<\/p>\n<p>People who are not married\u00a0 a long time, or in a long-term committed relationship may find that a little hard to believe. It&#8217;s true, though. So I put my effort into caring for my wife rather than myself. How long I live is not important and never really was. It just seemed to me that if it were possible, there was no reason <strong><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><em>NOT<\/em><\/span><\/strong> to live to one&#8217;s full potential.<\/p>\n<p>Coincidentally, the Dalai Lama must have been thinking about mortality this week:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">Every one of us is getting older, which is a natural process. Time is constantly moving on, second by second. Nothing can stop it, but what we can do is use our time properly; that is in our hands. Whether we believe in a spiritual tradition or not, we need to use our time meaningfully. If over days, weeks, months and years, we have used our time in a meaningful way \u2013 when our last day comes, we&#8217;ll be happy, we&#8217;ll have no regrets.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">~ Dalai Lama<\/span> **<br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: small;\"> 23 April 2012<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Stephen, who you&#8217;ll meet when <em>Unfolding: Nexus<\/em> is published, once looked into the Akashic Records for me and said I have about five or six lives left before I&#8217;m done living life as a human. With rare exceptions, we all have to die at sometime. I&#8217;ve seen glimpses of\u00a0 my future lives, so the number of years I spend in this one is not as important as the quality of the years I have.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Want to give it a whirl? Here are a few things to consider:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Sit up straight\u00a0\u2013 your mother was right.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Practice moderation in all things\u00a0\u2013 so was Socrates.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">&#8211; Don&#8217;t eat ice cream every day.<br \/>\n&#8211; Eat it twice a month.<br \/>\n&#8211; Cut back on meat.<br \/>\n&#8211; And so on down the list&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Exercise\u00a0 &#8211; your body is made for it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Subdue your ego.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">&#8211; It&#8217;s not the important thing\u00a0\u2013 you are.<br \/>\n&#8211; Participate in something larger than yourself.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Develop sound mental habits<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">&#8211; Pray<br \/>\n&#8211; Meditate<br \/>\n&#8211; Develop a positive internal dialog<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Learn something new each day<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">&#8211; Share it<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Take herbs and other supplements.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Avoid fad food.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">&#8211; Look for a diet that&#8217;s over 1,000 years old.<br \/>\n&#8211; Eat it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">o Practice being calm<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">&#8211; Empty yourself of wide emotional swings.<br \/>\n&#8211; When tensions rise<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 90px;\">+ Ask, &#8220;What will the world remember of this 50 years form now?&#8221;<br \/>\n+ Act that way.<\/p>\n<p>Is there a point to living longer than normal?<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s normal?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/wehrintheworld.blogspot.com\/2009\/06\/life-expectancy-over-time-charts.html\" target=\"_blank\">The quality of our lifespans have been expanding for millenia<\/a>. Why buck the trend? Don&#8217;t be one of those people who say, &#8220;If I&#8217;d have known I was going to live so long, I would have taken better care of myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Pick a number \u2013<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Go for it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; <\/strong><em><strong>Jeffrey A. Limpert<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">__________________<\/span><\/p>\n<p>* Name is changed<br \/>\n** The real one<\/p>\n<h3><strong>References:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Causality\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Causality<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Li_Ching-Yuen\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Li_Ching-Yuen<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/wehrintheworld.blogspot.com\/2009\/06\/life-expectancy-over-time-charts.html\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/wehrintheworld.blogspot.com\/2009\/06\/life-expectancy-over-time-charts.html<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong> Image Information:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Live Longer<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">https:\/\/secure.flickr.com\/photos\/waltstoneburner\/6078388974\/<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">By Walt Stoneburner<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">_______________________________<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Li ching-Yuen<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Li_chingYuen.jpeg<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Public Domain<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My friend Matt* swiveled his barstool as the stranger continued, &#8220;&#8230; you just have to keep finding new friends.&#8221; &#8220;And<a href=\"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/its-not-so-hard-living-400-years\/\"><\/p>\n<p>Read more &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5163,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[41,42,116,46,22,66],"tags":[68,137,135,129,79,134,133,130,136,131,65,132,138],"class_list":["post-1987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health","category-human-potential","category-life-experiments-2","category-paranormal-psi-esp","category-reincarnation","category-unfolding-series","tag-borderlands-2","tag-coincidences","tag-dalai-lama","tag-health-2","tag-human-potential-2","tag-li-ching-yuen","tag-life-extension","tag-longevity","tag-meaningful-life","tag-mortality","tag-paranormal","tag-relationships","tag-youth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1987"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5557,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987\/revisions\/5557"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5163"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unfoldingseries.com\/uf9\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}